Dear Deidre on Marriage

Whether you’re not getting enough attention, are drifting apart or are struggling to get over a betrayal – Dear Deidre editor Sally Land, and her team of experienced counsellors are on hand to advise on your marriage dilemmas.

Wife kicked me out after I cheated three times but I want her back

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Wife kicked me out after I cheated three times but I want her back

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I went on Tinder for attention & had virtual sex – will it reboot my marriage?

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I went on Tinder & had virtual sex – will it reboot my marriage?

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My wife doesn’t know I’ve been longing to be a woman since I was a teen

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My wife doesn't know I've been longing to be a woman since I was a teen

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I cheated on my fiance because I was bored – but now I’m falling for this girl

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I cheated on my fiance because I was bored – but now I'm falling for this girl

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A lesbian affair is making me question my marriage

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A lesbian affair is making me question my marriage

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My wife walked out when I asked her what was for dinner

MISSING NO ACTION

My wife walked out when I asked her what was for dinner

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My husband got a woman pregnant in India and now she won’t leave me alone

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My husband got a woman pregnant in India and now she won't leave me alone

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I got pregnant with another man’s baby on a girls’ holiday

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I got pregnant with another man's baby on a girls' holiday

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The menopause has made my wife irritable and unaffectionate

HORMONE HASSLE

The menopause has made my wife irritable and unaffectionate

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My online lover supports me wearing knickers and tights – do I go meet her?

CROSS THE LINE

My online lover supports me wearing knickers and tights – do I go meet her?

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My addiction to sexy chatrooms is ruining my life

I'VE GOT A SEXT

My addiction to sexy chatrooms is ruining my life

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I haven’t had sex with my husband since he cheated on me 10 years ago

HOLDING OUT

I haven't had sex with my husband since he cheated on me 10 years ago

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My husband can’t get it up – but managed okay with his 25-year-old colleague

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My husband can't get it up – but managed okay with his 25-year-old colleague

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My wife likes it when another man slaps her bum but I hate it

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My wife likes it when another man slaps her bum but I hate it

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My lazy husband refuses to help at home and just plays on his games console

SO UNFAIR

My lazy husband refuses to help at home and just plays on his games console

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My husband is difficult to live with and I worry he is autistic

ACTING UP

My husband is difficult to live with and I worry he is autistic

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I think my wife is having an affair because my penis is too small

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I think my wife is having an affair because my penis is too small

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My husband’s affair was bad enough – but now I’ve discovered his lovechild

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My husband's affair was bad enough – but now I've discovered his lovechild

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