Dear Deidre on Marriage

Whether you’re not getting enough attention, are drifting apart or are struggling to get over a betrayal – Dear Deidre editor Sally Land, and her team of experienced counsellors are on hand to advise on your marriage dilemmas.

My wife says she loves me but not my penis and now wants to have casual sex with a ‘big boy’

DEAR DEIDRE

My wife says my penis 'doesn't hit spot' & wants to have sex with a 'big boy'

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My husband can be kind but his lifelong thieving habit and his tightness with money really bothers me

STICKY FINGERS

My husband can be kind but his lifelong thieving habit really bothers me

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My wife had cousin’s baby and I want my ‘son’ to know the truth before I die

DEAR DEIDRE

My wife had cousin's baby and I want my 'son' to know the truth before I die

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I walked out on my porn-addicted husband and now he is begging me to come back

HAPPY ALONE

I walked out on my porn-addicted husband and now he is begging me to come back

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Husband says he still fancies me but he never wants to have sex

FEELING UNWANTED

Husband says he still fancies me but he never wants to have sex

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My husband has decided he doesn’t want kids and I’m heartbroken

OUT OF THE BLUE

My husband has decided he doesn't want kids and I'm heartbroken

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You helped my husband and I sort our finances and our relationship

THANK YOU

You helped my husband and I sort our finances and our relationship

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I can’t stop my steamy co-worker affair even though my hubby gave me a second chance

DEAR DEIDRE

I can't stop my affair even though my husband gave me a second chance

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I see a male prostitute once a month as husband suffers from erectile dysfunction

DEAR DEIDRE

I see a male prostitute once a month as hubby suffers from erectile dysfunction

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I’m ready to reboot my sex life & find love after grieving hubby for three years

MOVING ON

I'm ready to reboot my sex life and find love after husband's death

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My husband got a pay rise but I still pay the bills as he won’t split in half

STINGY SPOUSE

My husband got a pay rise but I still pay the bills as he won't split in half

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I caught my wife on a website for married people who want to sleep around

DEAR DEIDRE

I caught my wife on a website for married people who want to sleep around

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How do I make living with my soon-to-be ex-husband easier?

LIVING NIGHTMARE

How do I make living with my soon-to-be ex-husband easier?

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My wife is terminally ill and I don’t know how I’ll cope once she’s gone

GRIEF STRICKEN

My wife is terminally ill and I don't know how I'll cope once she's gone

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My handsome husband has been cheating on me – but I’m yet to tell him I know

DEAR DEIDRE

My handsome husband has been cheating on me – but I'm yet to tell him I know

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My husband storms off to the pub every time we have a minor disagreement

LAST ORDERS

My husband storms off to the pub every time we have a minor disagreement

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I can’t climax, so how are we ever going to start a family?

LET IT O

I can't climax, so how are we ever going to start a family?

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My husband suggested a threesome – but was furious when I organised one

DEAR DEIDRE

My husband suggested a threesome – but was furious when I organised one

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