Dear Deidre on Marriage

Whether you’re not getting enough attention, are drifting apart or are struggling to get over a betrayal – Dear Deidre editor Sally Land, and her team of experienced counsellors are on hand to advise on your marriage dilemmas.

My fiancé blew our wedding savings gambling online

NO DEAL

My fiancé blew our wedding savings gambling online

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My wife suddenly cares about her appearance – is she cheating?

MAKE AN EFFORT

My wife suddenly cares about her appearance – is she cheating?

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I want to reveal three-year affair as I can’t handle her husband raising my kid

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My lover's husband doesn't know the baby they're bringing up is actually mine

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Ex brainwashed my kids while I was ill and now they think I don’t care about them

TURNED AGAINST ME

Ex brainwashed my kids and now they think I don’t care about them

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I used to have amazing sex with my wife but she no longer wants it

SEX SLUMP

I used to have amazing sex with my wife but she no longer wants it

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A stranger claims she slept with my husband – has he got a stalker?

DEAR DEIDRE

A stranger claims she slept with my husband – has he got a stalker?

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Is it selfish of me to say I won’t get my vasectomy reversed?

NOT SO CLEAR-CUT

Is it selfish of me to say I won’t get my vasectomy reversed?

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Would starting another relationship behind my wife’s back be so bad?

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Would starting another relationship behind my wife's back be so bad?

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My husband spends a fortune on X-rated sites but denies he has a porn problem

WEB HOOKED

My husband spends a fortune on X-rated sites but denies he has a porn problem

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My grieving wife regularly throws things at me and smacks me around the face

ABUSIVE MARRIAGE

My grieving wife regularly throws things at me & smacks me around the face

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My husband was admiring women in tiny bikinis while we were at the beach

WHAT ABOUT ME?

My husband was admiring women in tiny bikinis while we were at the beach

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I’m married but I sleep around with strangers in the hope I’ll get pregnant

DEAR DEIDRE

I'm married but I sleep around with strangers in the hope I’ll get pregnant

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My husband suffers with a heart condition and keeps loosing his erection

A HARD TIME

My husband suffers with a heart condition and keeps loosing his erection

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My husband won’t refresh his faded tattoo of my name or renew our vows

TRUST ISSUES

My husband won't refresh his faded tattoo of my name or renew our vows

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Even though we’re separated, I still feel guilty I kissed my husband’s friend

DEAR DEIDRE

Even though we're separated, I still feel guilty I kissed my husband's friend

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My ex won’t let me see my ­daughter unless I pose nude for him

BARE FACED CHEEK

My ex won’t let me see my ­daughter unless I pose nude for him

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My lover is blackmailing me and threatening to tell my husband

DEAR DEIDRE

My lover is blackmailing me and threatening to tell my husband

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My husband always accuses me of cheating – yet he was the one who had an affair

TRUST ME

My husband always accuses me of cheating – yet he was the one who had an affair

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