Dear Deidre on Marriage

Whether you’re not getting enough attention, are drifting apart or are struggling to get over a betrayal – Dear Deidre editor Sally Land, and her team of experienced counsellors are on hand to advise on your marriage dilemmas.

My husband has been living a double life with a second family

DEAR DEIDRE

My husband has been living a double life with a second family

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Daughter walked out on her family and says she is a lesbian

NEW START

Daughter walked out on her family and says she is a lesbian

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Wife cheated on me for three years and I think she was swayed by his money

CHEAT FOR CASH

Wife cheated on me for three years and I think she was swayed by his money

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My husband pretends he’s a baby for sexual kicks and it repulses me

DEAR DEIDRE

My husband pretends he’s a baby for sexual kicks and it repulses me

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Every time we argue, my husband runs out the door to the pub

SWIFT EXIT

Every time we argue, my husband runs out the door to the pub

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I found my partner’s messages to his ex-wife questioning their divorce

DEAR DEIDRE

I found my partner's messages to his ex-wife questioning their divorce

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I don’t want to end my marriage because of our son, but I can’t stand my husband

HOLDING ON

I don't want to end my marriage because of our son, but I can't stand my husband

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My husband thinks a threesome would fix all our problems

THREE'S A CROWD

My husband thinks a threesome would fix all our problems

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I long to have a threesome with another woman but my husband wants me all to himself

DEAR DEIDRE

I long to have a threesome but my husband wants me all to himself

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My wife won’t forgive me for flirting with other women on Facebook

DEAR DEIDRE

My wife won't forgive me for flirting with other women on Facebook

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My husband’s constant farting and burping in bed is ruining our marriage

MAKING A STINK

My husband's constant farting and burping in bed is ruining our marriage

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My wife fantasises about Strictly Come Dancing’s Gorka Marquez when we have sex

DEAR DEIDRE

My wife fantasises about hunky Strictly pro dancer Gorka when we have sex

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I found condoms in my fiancé’s bag after his lads’ holiday – did he cheat?

DEAR DEIDRE

I found condoms in my fiancé's bag after his lads' holiday – did he cheat?

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My wife avoids foreplay because she hates her body

HIDE IN PLAIN SIGHT

My wife avoids foreplay because she hates her body

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My sons haven’t spoken to me since I left their abusive dad

SILENT TREATMENT

My sons haven't spoken to me since I left their abusive dad

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I need to dump my lover because he’s a sad swinger that uses me for sex

DEAR DEIDRE

I need to dump my lover because he's a sad swinger that uses me for sex

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My wife runs our home like a military compound and I want out

OUT OF CONTROL

My wife runs our home like a military compound and I want out

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I caught my wife giving oral sex to a stripper at her hen party

DEAR DEIDRE

I caught my wife giving oral sex to a stripper at her hen party

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