Building Customer Loyalty In Ecommerce

When I started building my brand ecosystem publicly, everything shifted. The traditional advice says, "build it and they will come." But after studying founder brands, I've learned that most founders are stuck choosing between getting attention and maintaining integrity. Last year, I watched a brilliant entrepreneur struggle with this exact paradox. When I shared my Brand Trust Equation with her, something beautiful happened. Here's what I learned about building in public through systematic brand development: 1. Identity System Transparency Share your core messaging, positioning, and values openly. Building your identity in public creates accountability for authentic choices. Your audience connects with the journey, not just the destination. 2. Content System Broadcasting Document your strategic output across all platforms transparently. Sharing your content framework helps others while establishing your authority. Your systematic approach demonstrates professionalism and intentionality. 3. Experience System Documentation Show how people interact with your brand at every touchpoint. Building your customer journey in public creates better experiences for everyone. Your process transparency helps prospects know exactly what to expect. 4. Conversion System Sharing Reveal how attention becomes revenue in your business model. Building your funnel in public demonstrates the value of systematic thinking. Your transparent approach shows prospects the clear path forward. 5. Lighthouse Content Strategy Create cornerstone pieces that attract your ideal audience while repelling everyone else. Building your manifesto, methodology, case studies, and vision in public establishes authority. Your transparent philosophy becomes a filter for quality connections. This approach builds long-term brand equity instead of short-term attention. 6. Platform Synergy Framework Show how different platforms serve different purposes in your ecosystem. Building your multi-platform strategy in public creates strategic alignment. Other founders learn how to maximize impact across channels. This isn't just about building brands, it's about creating beautiful, systemized, and authentic businesses that serve both founders and their communities. When you build your brand ecosystem in public, you're not just attracting attention. You're building trust through the Brand Trust Equation: (Consistency × Authenticity × Value) ÷ Self-Promotion. The solution isn't choosing between integrity and attention, it's building systems that deliver both simultaneously through transparent, value-first brand development. The future belongs to those brave enough to build their brand systems in public. __ Enjoy this? ♻️ Repost it to your network and follow Matt Gray for more. Curious how this could look inside your business? DM me ‘System’ and I’ll walk you through how we help clients make it happen. This is for high-commitment founders only.

A hairdresser and a marketer came into the bar. Hold on… Haircuts and marketing? 🤔 Here's the reality: Consumers are more aware than ever of how their data is used. User privacy is no longer a checkbox – It is a trust-building cornerstone for any online business. 88% of consumers say they won’t share personal information unless they trust a brand. Think about it: Every time a user visits your website, they’re making an active choice to trust you or not. They want to feel heard and respected. If you're not prioritizing their privacy preferences, you're risking their data AND loyalty. We’ve all been there – Asked for a quick trim and got VERY short hair instead. Using consumers’ data without consent is just like cutting the hair you shouldn’t cut. That horrible bad haircut ruined our mood for weeks. And a poor data privacy experience can drive customers straight to your competitors, leaving your shopping carts empty. How do you avoid this pitfall? - Listen to your users. Use consent and preference management tools such as Usercentrics to allow customers full control of their data. - Be transparent. Clearly communicate how you use their information and respect their choices. - Build trust: When users feel secure about their data, they’re more likely to engage with your brand. Make sure your website isn’t alienating users with poor data practices. Start by evaluating your current approach to data privacy by scanning your website for trackers. Remember, respecting consumer choices isn’t just an ethical practice. It’s essential for long-term success in e-commerce. Focus on creating a digital environment where consumers feel valued and secure. Trust me, it will pay off! 💰

Most eCommerce brands obsess over revenue and ROAS. But the real game is in the metrics no one talks about. Here are 10 overlooked KPIs that actually drive growth (and how to optimize them): ~~ 1. LTV:CAC Ratio (The Ultimate Health Check) LTV:CAC = Customer Lifetime Value ÷ Customer Acquisition Cost 1:1 = You’re bleeding money 3:1 = Healthy 5:1+ = Printing cash If you’re below 3:1, either: ✅ Lower CAC (better targeting, UGC ads, referrals) ✅ Increase LTV (subscriptions, upsells, memberships) == 2. 90-Day Repurchase Rate If a customer doesn’t buy again within 90 days, they probably won’t. Fix it by: • Winback campaigns with targeted incentives • Selling bundles that create habits • Building a loyalty program that rewards repeat buyers == 3. Contribution Margin (What’s Actually Left?) CM = Revenue – (COGS + Shipping + Discounts + Ad Spend) If your CM is under 30%, you’re scaling a business that won’t survive. Get margins up by: • Cutting discount dependency • Negotiating lower fulfillment costs • Adding Onward shipping protection == 4. Subscription Churn Rate (The Silent Killer) High churn = your brand is a leaky bucket Fix it by: • Adding pause & skip options via SMS (Skio for example) • Add more delivery options and product variety • Sending an email 7 days before renewal reminding them potential lost perks == 5. Time to Second Purchase (T2P) Track how long it takes for a customer to place their second order—then cut that time in half. Tactics to speed it up: • AI-based Email/SMS flows with hyper-targeted recommendations • Exclusive discounts for second-time buyers • Reorder reminders based on average usage time == 6. Gross Margin per Order (The Scaling Checkpoint) At scale, 40%+ gross margins keep you profitable. If you're below that: • Increase prices (test 10% bumps) • Reduce discounting, do Cashback instead (@ Onward) • Negotiate better supplier terms (carrier rates, 3pl, etc) == 7. Refund & Return Rate A high return rate = a CAC multiplier. Fix it by: • Charging for returns (but offering free exchanges) • Clearer product descriptions & sizing charts • Post-purchase emails on how to use the product == 8. Organic vs. Paid Revenue Ratio If 60%+ of your sales come from paid ads, you’re in trouble. Brands with real staying power win on organic channels. The fix? • SEO & content marketing • Affiliate & referral programs • Retention tactics (VIP, loyalty, subscriptions) == 8. SKU Concentration Risk If 80%+ of your revenue comes from one product, you’re vulnerable. Great brands expand without overextending. Turn one-time buyers into multi-SKU customers with: • Bundles • Exclusive add-ons • Subscription perks == 9. % of Revenue from Returning Customers A healthy DTC brand makes 40%+ of revenue from repeat buyers. If you’re below that, focus on LTV levers: • VIP memberships • Personalized email/SMS offers • Post-purchase nurture flows Follow Josh Payne for deep dives on DTC, SaaS, and investing.

One of the biggest mistakes in marketing is the expectation of immediate ROI. It’s tempting to seek instant results. But this mindset often misses a crucial aspect of the customer journey: the time it takes for potential customers to transition from awareness to purchase. In reality, the path from initial exposure to a final decision isn’t always swift—it can span weeks or even months. This extended timeline is a key part of consumer behavior that marketers must recognize and plan for in their strategies. This is where nurturing becomes essential. Effective nurturing goes beyond quick wins and involves building meaningful relationships through personalized email campaigns, targeted SMS messages, engaging content, and active audience interactions. However, nurturing doesn’t stop after the first purchase. Continuing to engage with customers post-purchase is crucial for fostering loyalty and trust. Although immediate ROI from nurturing may not be immediately visible, its long-term benefits are substantial. Proper nurturing enhances conversion rates and boosts customer lifetime value. To build a successful nurturing strategy, start by mapping out the customer journey. Develop targeted content that resonates with your audience, leverage marketing automation to streamline your efforts, and personalize your communications to create a more meaningful connection. Continually refine your approach based on feedback and performance data to ensure your nurturing efforts are as effective as possible. By embracing this long-term perspective, you'll turn initial investments into sustained growth and lasting success.

Plot twist: Your top performer isn't even on payroll. While you're grinding through cold calls and perfecting pitch decks, your actual sales superstars are sitting in your customer base, and most companies completely ignore them. Think about it: Who's more convincing? ❌ You explaining why your product is amazing ✅ A customer explaining how it transformed their business Here's the playbook that's turning customers into commission-free closers: 🎯 Turn success into content: Skip the generic thank-you note. Get that win in front of eyeballs; case studies, LinkedIn posts, video testimonials. Success is contagious. 🎤 Hand them the microphone: A 2-minute customer video explaining their transformation beats your entire sales deck. Let them tell the story in their words. 🔄 Build the referral machine: Make customer intros part of every quarterly check-in. The best reps I know cut their sales cycles in half with warm introductions. 💬 Steal their language: Stop using marketing speak. Use the exact words your customers use to describe their problems and wins. That's what resonates with prospects. 🏆 Make them famous: Customer of the month. Slack shoutouts. Social media features. People love recognition, and others want to be next. The reality check: Your customers aren't just buying your product; they're betting their reputation on it. When they succeed, they become walking proof that you deliver. And in a world where everyone's selling, proof beats promises every time. Your customers already said yes once. Now make them want to repeat it for you. #sales #customersuccess

Want to see brand storytelling done right? Etsy’s 20th anniversary "What it Takes"  campaign reminds us that being original, human-centric, and true to your values builds trust *and* stands out. Let's break it down... Devoid of traditional (and expected) branded flair, the campaign shifts attention to the creators—the users—and what it takes to produce the one-of-a-kind items that fill the marketplace. Instead of focusing on the highly-visual products, this quiet tribute celebrates the power of originally, the need for human connection, and the richness of craft through telling the stories of three makers. As Etsy CMO Brad Minor put it, this is about “celebrating originality” in a world that often prioritizes convenience. I often advise that content should educate, inspire, or entertain. This hits all three. Through a mix of in-person events, social video, and UGC, the campaign (by Orchard) successfully humanizes an otherwise intangible online space. In a great breakdown for DesignRush, Roberto Orosa surfaces three key lessons: 1. As mass production and AI-generated products grow more common, shoppers are increasingly drawn to brands that feel human and handmade. 2. By showing the hard work behind creativity, the platform shifts the narrative from product to process. 3. It’s one of the cleanest examples of how brand storytelling can focus not on what’s being sold, but on why it matters. 🌟 Takeaway: As trust becomes the biggest currency in brand-building, stories about your people, your purpose, and your process ensure you’ll never run out of original ideas. See the Etsy “What it Takes” campaign in action: https://lnkd.in/gSE4HYJ2 Full article via DesignRush: https://lnkd.in/gmFTzYDz Video credit: https://lnkd.in/g4rtY_cw

I often see people who misinterpret social media as a community building tool. It can be used as such, but very tough to do. (and most people who think they are doing it right are just building another distribution outlet — which is great, but different from building a community) It requires a slightly different approach than the average social strategy. Social Platforms (like X & LinkedIn) • Open networks • Content dependent • Great because people are usually spending lots of their time there • Tough to stand out since you’re competing against the algorithm, other creators, brands, and everyone else in the feed Community Platforms (like Discord, Slack, Circle) • Usually closed networks • Dependent on user engagement • Great for consolidating your core group of members • Very tough to maintain over time since you need people to come back to your specific group (even tougher if engagement is declining) Ok, so how do you use social platforms top build an online community? 1/ Define your community 2/ Share it on your social accounts, in your bio, etc. 3/ Align your content around this community and what they love 4/ When you create your content, keep this specific community in mind 5/ Share updates publicly just like you would within a Discord channel 6/ Allocate a good chunk of time per day to community management 7/ Nurture your most engaged followers by supporting their content 8/ Make introductions directly in the feed wherever possible 9/ Use your platform to elevate others in your community 10/ Introduce group language that people can use How do you know when you’re doing it right? • People will use your account to discover others with similar interests • People will use your language and phrases in their posts • People will use the comments section of your posts like a forum • People will host meetups or connect with one another IRL at events • People will often tag you in content related to your community In closing, Yes, you can use social platforms like X & LinkedIn to build an online community. But it requires much more effort than just posting content about your brand or the problem you solve. You’ve got to constantly keep the community you’re serving top of mind, put in the time to nurture your members, and be consistent over a long period of time.

The world preaches loyalty, but how many brands actually live it? Last month, I got an invite to something called Summer Smash, 1st Phorm International's invite-only community event in St. Louis. Think three days of HQ tours, private pre-parties, high-energy workouts, rides, and live music from artists like Ludacris, Lil' Jon, Pitbull, and Steve Aoki. The whole thing sells out in under a minute each year. Pure community building at it's finest. I couldn't make it due to personal obligations, but here's what blew me away: they still sent me a surprise box packed with over 10 of their top products (proteins, apparel, energy drinks, protein sticks), plus a handwritten note that felt genuinely personal, not like a marketing ploy. We've gotten so caught up in digital tactics that we've forgotten about the power of high-touch moments that forge actual emotional connections. This kind of follow-through is almost unheard of in today's brand world. Most companies would've moved on to the next person on their list. But 1st Phorm gets something that a lot of brands miss: real loyalty isn't built through campaigns or offers, it's built through experiences that make people feel like they belong to something bigger. That's where lifetime value really takes off. Summer Smash is far beyond just an event; it's the kind of experience that flips the loyalty script entirely, where customers don't just buy, they simply belong. Here's what I think other brands can learn from this approach: ➟ Send unexpected value for no reason. A surprise product or handwritten note shows customers they matter beyond their purchase history. ➟ Build exclusive communities around shared values, not just products. Whether it's in-person events or virtual experiences, give your best customers something they can't get anywhere else. ➟ Create moments people actually talk about. A few hours with A-list talent or behind-the-scenes access beats another discount code every time. ➟ Lead with gratitude, not growth metrics. When thank-you moments drive your strategy instead of the other way around, authenticity follows naturally. The bottom line: loyalty is earned through emotion, experience, and belonging. If your brand isn't building that, you're just another transaction in someone's day. When did you last surprise your customers with something that wasn't even on your roadmap?

The Art of Brand Storytelling—and Why It’s Essential for Business Growth In a digital world overflowing with content, data, and distraction, the brands that win aren’t just louder—they’re more human. They connect. They resonate. They tell stories. Welcome to the age of brand storytelling—where authenticity, emotion, and narrative are the new differentiators. More than a marketing trend, storytelling is a strategic growth lever that helps businesses build trust, foster loyalty, and create long-term value. What Is Brand Storytelling? Brand storytelling is the strategic use of narrative to express who you are, what you stand for, and why you exist. It’s more than a logo or a tagline—it’s your mission, your origin, your people, your customers, your values. And it’s told in a way that creates emotional engagement across every touchpoint. Think Apple’s “Think Different,” Nike’s “Just Do It,” or Dove’s “Real Beauty.” These aren’t just campaigns. They’re living stories that reflect something deeper—something customers want to be part of. Why Storytelling Is Critical for Growth 1. Emotion Drives Decisions Research shows that people make buying decisions based on emotion, not logic. A great story taps into those emotions—whether it's aspiration, belonging, trust, or transformation—and helps customers see themselves in your brand’s journey. 2. Differentiation in Crowded Markets Products and services are easy to replicate. Stories are not. A compelling brand narrative gives your business a distinct identity that competitors can’t copy. It answers the question: Why you? 3. Builds Trust and Loyalty In an era of skepticism and fleeting attention, transparency and authenticity win. Storytelling gives you a platform to show—not just tell—your audience what you stand for. When customers believe in your story, they stay loyal, become advocates, and spend more over time. 4. Unifies Internal Teams A powerful brand story isn’t just outward-facing. It rallies your internal teams, aligns cross-functional efforts, and reinforces your mission at every level of the organization. Employees who connect with your story become your most passionate brand ambassadors. 5. Amplifies Omnichannel Engagement From websites and social media to customer service scripts and sales presentations, storytelling can be woven into every channel. It ensures consistency, continuity, and relevance, critical for meeting today’s customer wherever they are. Focus on five core elements: Purpose – Why you exist beyond making money Problem – The challenge you help solve People – Who do you serve Promise – The value or change you deliver Proof – What backs it up (results, testimonials, data) In a world where facts are forgotten but feelings endure, your brand story is what people will remember, trust, and champion. Tell it with clarity, live it with purpose, and watch it become the catalyst that turns attention into action—and customers into believers. #branding #brandstorytelling #growth

Consistency creates trust. Say what you will do. Do what you said you would. Reliability. Consistency. Whatever you call it, it is a customer experience superpower. When a brand is clear about what its customers can expect, and then it delivers on those expectations with its product, its service, its experience, that is consistency. That builds trust. ✈ Southwest Airlines is a great example. 💺 No seat assignments. You know this when you book with them. 2️⃣ checked bags for free. You know this as well. Guess what? They didn’t used to advertise about 2 free checked bags. Because 10 years ago, that wasn’t special. Now, with all the other airlines charging, Southwest has a new point of differentiation. Because of their consistency. While The Southwest experience is changing, it is changing in a predictable way. It does not feel like a moving target. How do you create consistency in your customer experience? Share your thoughts in the comments below. 👇 And here are 5 steps to follow to build trust through consistency: 🔷Start with the end in mind. What do your customers expect from you? 🔷Identify experience elements that meet those customer expectations. Ask yourself, What can we consistently deliver that will meet our customers’ expectations? 🔷Set customers’ expectations appropriately. Make promises about what you will consistently deliver. 🔷Keep those promises with your experience. Obvious, but make sure you’re keeping your promises the vast majority of the time. 🔷Apologize and rectify when you don’t keep your promises. This reinforces that unkept promises are rare exceptions, not signs of a new pattern. If you are showing up consistently, setting expectations for an experience that customers want, and keeping those expectations in most instances, then the exceptions stay exceptions. And, in fact, they’re service recovery opportunities that reinforce the fact that you usually do keep your promises, and that you take it seriously when you don’t keep your promises. 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗰𝘆 𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱𝘀 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁. 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗰𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗿 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.