Navigating Workplace Dynamics

This quote got me thinking. Early in my career, I struggled with how people showed up. I was often called too intense, I was often perceived as overwhelming, but the truth of it is I SHOWED UP! I was engaged, I was committed, and I wanted to make an impact. Not knowing why there was such a difference between how I showed up and others, I learned … that ONLY 31% of employees are enthusiastic and energized by their work? Imagine that almost 70% of the people in your team are there because they just have to 🫣 I honestly can't imagine that, which is why I implemented some solutions in my teams, most of it worked, some of it I’m still testing & trying … Here are some things I did: 👉 Trust & Empower: I involve my team in decision-making processes and push decisions to them when possible. This fosters a sense of ownership and responsibility. 👉 Celebrate Feedback: I create an environment where feedback is frequent and constructive. It encourages continuous learning and growth. 👉 Connect 'Why' to Vision: I share a compelling vision to motivate team members and clearly explain why their contributions matter. 👉 Offer Development: I signal my commitment to personal growth with training and development opportunities. It sparks motivation and increases loyalty. 👉 Recognize & Praise: I acknowledge achievements and make saying ‘thank you’ my default. A little recognition goes a long way to boost morale and motivation. 👉 Promote Diversity: I embrace diverse perspectives and backgrounds to enrich the work environment, prompt healthy debate, and drive innovation. 👉 Encourage Collaboration: I encourage teamwork on projects. This builds a sense of community and belonging while also accelerating learning 👉 Challenge Comfort Zones: I push and encourage team members to expand their skills and what they think is possible. It promotes growth and enthusiasm. 👉 Cultivate Inclusivity: I ensure all voices are heard. For example, I make sure extroverts don't steal the show and create the space needed for quieter team members to speak. Be the leader that serves, empowers and inspires. And all will go just fine 🙌 #EmployeeEngagement #TeamMotivation #WorkCulture

"Woah!” Tomoko-san told me. “It’s so strange. In Japan, we say American culture is egalitarian. But after living in the US for two years, I now see their decision-making is much more hierarchical than ours.” Dirk from Germany confirmed: “Americans pretend they are egalitarian with their open-door policies, first-name basis, and casual dress, but when it comes to decision making - the boss makes the decision and everyone falls in line.” These quotes hit the core of a global leadership truth. Culture shapes two critical dimensions: 1. The Leading scale looks at how much deference or respect is shown to an authority figure. In egalitarian cultures, it’s ok to disagree with the boss even in front of others. It’s ok to email or call people several levels below or above you without putting the boss in copy. In hierarchical cultures, an effort is made to defer to the boss, especially in public, and communication follows the hierarchical chain. 2. The Deciding scale looks at whether we make decisions slowly over time by groups (consensual cultures) or whether decisions are made quickly by individuals (usually the boss) but then may be changed frequently as more information arises (what I call top-down cultures). These two dimensions create four very different leadership styles: 1. Hierarchical and top-down cultures (hello, China, India, Mexico, Russia, and Saudi Arabia) where deference/respect to authority is high and decisions are made by the boss. 2. Hierarchical but consensual decision-making (like Germany and especially Japan) – decisions are made slowly over time by groups, but deference to formal hierarchies is strong. 3. Egalitarian cultures that make quick top-down decisions (enter the United States or Australia), where anyone can speak up, but the boss still calls the final shot. 4. And then Consensual, egalitarian cultures (that's you, Denmark, Netherlands, Norway, and Sweden), where decision-making is slow, inclusive, and everyone’s voice holds weight. Each style is effective on its own. But a lot can go wrong when working across cultures, and these methods collide. Global leadership requires mapping your style to where you are and adapting like your success depends on it. Because it does. So, what quadrant do you lead in? Explore the map of your team here: erinmeyer.com/tools #TheCultureMap #GlobalLeadership #CrossCulturalLeadership #ErinMeyer #CultureMatters #LeadershipTruths

If #diversity, #equity, and #inclusion practitioners want to get ahead of anti-DEI backlash, we have to address an elephant in the room: no two people in the same workplace perceive their workplace the same way. I see this every time I work with client organizations. When asked to describe their own experience with the workplace and its DEI strengths and challenges, I hear things like: 😊 "I've never experienced any discrimination or mistreatment; our leaders' commitment is strong." 🤨 "I had a good time in one department, but after transferring departments I started experiencing explicit ableist comments under my new manager." 🙁 "I've never had anything egregious happen, but I've always felt less respected by my team members because of my race." Who's right? Turns out, all of them. It starts to get messy because everyone inevitably generalizes their own personal experiences into their perception of the workplace as a whole; three people might accordingly describe their workplace as a "meritocracy without discrimination," an "inconsistently inclusive workplace dependent on manager," or "a subtly racist environment." And when people are confronted with other experiences of the workplace that DIFFER from their own, they often take it personally. I've seen leaders bristle at the implication that their own experience was "wrong," or get defensive in expectation they will be accused of lacking awareness. It's exactly this defensiveness that lays the foundation for misunderstanding, polarization, and yes—anti-DEI misinformation—to spread in an organization. How do we mitigate it? In my own work, I've found that these simple steps go a long way. 1. Validate everyone's experience. Saying outright that everyone's personal experience is "correct" for themselves might seem too obvious, but it plays a powerful role in helping everyone feel respected and taken seriously. Reality is not a question of "who is right"—it's the messy summation of everyone's lived experience, good or bad. 2. Use data to create a shared baseline. Gathering data by organizational and social demographics allows us to make statements like, "the average perception of team respect is 70% in Engineering, but only 30% in Sales," or "perception of fair decision making processes is 90% for white men, but only 40% for Black women." This establishes a shared reality, a baseline for any effective DEI work. 3. Make it clear that problem-solving involves—and requires—everyone. The goal of DEI work is to achieve positive outcomes for everyone. Those with already positive experiences? Their insights help us know what we're aiming for. Those with the most negative? Their insights help us learn what's broken. The more we communicate that collective effort benefits the collective, rather than shaming or dismissing those at the margins, the more we can unite people around DEI and beat the backlash.

One of the most common questions I get asked, especially when I speak at tech events, is this: "How do I handle feedback and turn it into a tool for growth?" Feedback can feel tricky sometimes. I get it - you’re putting your work, your ideas, your skills out there, and then someone comes back and tells you it’s not quite right. It can sting, right? I’ve been there too. But here’s the thing - how you respond to feedback can either fuel your career growth or quietly hold you back. Let me explain. When you approach feedback with the wrong attitude, whether it’s defensiveness, dismissiveness, or even avoidance, you’re shutting the door to potential improvement. Imagine building a great product and ignoring feedback because, "It works fine for me!" It sounds ridiculous, but that’s exactly what a wrong attitude to feedback looks like. However, let me show you how I make feedback a tool for growth: 👉 I detach my ego from my work: I understand that sometimes comments on our work can get to us, but it’s a lot easier when I remind myself that my work or ideas are not me specifically. I consciously choose not to see feedback as an attack but as an opportunity to make my work better. 👉 I ask for clarification: Sometimes, people just want to talk or make vague comments, and I ensure that I filter things properly by asking the right questions. If the feedback isn’t clear, I ask for examples or specifics. I’ll say things like, “Can you show me what you mean?” or “What would you suggest as an improvement?” This helps me turn vague critiques into actionable insights. 👉 I create a feedback loop: After implementing feedback, I follow up by asking, “Does this solve the issue you pointed out?” This shows I’m proactive and allows me to openly communicate, making feedback even more effective. The right attitude to feedback can transform how you grow in your career. Use it as a tool to refine and elevate your work rather than something to fear. I hope this helps someone. See you in the future! Samuel Lasisi #linkedin #feedback #career #tech #uxdesign #uiuxdesign

Corporate Soul Stories Chapter 16: The Art of Giving Creative & Constructive #Feedback – Growing Without Tearing Down Claire was a rising leader—sharp, driven, and always pushing her team to be better. But if she was honest, there was one part of leadership she dreaded: Giving feedback. She had seen it go wrong too many times. 🚨 The Sugarcoated Trap: Feedback so vague and polite that it did nothing to help. 🚨 The Bulldozer Approach: Brutal, demoralizing, and crushing instead of coaching. 🚨 The Avoidance Game: No feedback at all—just silent resentment until it was too late. But the best leaders? They knew the secret: Feedback isn’t about criticism. It’s about growth. The Garden Analogy: How Great Feedback Works One day, Claire’s mentor, a veteran executive named Mark, gave her a new way to look at feedback. "Think of your team like a garden," he said. "Some plants need sunlight—encouragement, praise, recognition." "Some need pruning—corrections, adjustments, realignment." "Some need deeper roots—mentorship, challenges, new skills." "Your job? To help them grow—not to rip them out of the soil." That was Claire’s turning point. The 3 Rules of Game-Changing Feedback ✅ 1. Focus on Growth, Not Judgment Instead of “This was wrong,” she started saying “Here’s how we can make this even better.” It wasn’t about pointing fingers. It was about pointing forward. ✅ 2. Make It Specific and Actionable Instead of “You need to improve your presentations,” she said “Let’s work on making your key points clearer in the first two minutes.” No one can fix vague feedback. Clarity creates progress. ✅ 3. Balance Praise with Challenge She learned to celebrate strengths while addressing areas to improve. People need to hear what they’re doing right so they have the confidence to tackle what’s wrong. The Transformation: When Feedback Becomes a Superpower Claire’s team changed. 🚀 People stopped fearing feedback and started asking for it. 🚀 Mistakes became less about failure and more about learning. 🚀 Productivity soared—because when people know how to improve, they actually do. And here’s the kicker—Claire grew too. Because the best leaders don’t just give feedback. They invite it. They ask, “What can I do better as your leader?”—and they listen. Final Thought: Feedback Isn’t a Weapon. It’s a Gift. The difference between a boss and a leader? A boss tells you what you did wrong. A leader shows you how to do it right. Ask Yourself Today: "Am I helping people grow—or just pointing out what’s broken?" "Do I avoid feedback because it’s hard, or embrace it because it’s necessary?" Because the best teams thrive on feedback. Not fear. To be continued… 🚀 DC*

Last week, a mentee came to me after her annual review. Her feedback was good — specific enough to sting a little. She walked out with every intention of acting on it. I asked her one question: "What's different on your calendar this week?" She paused. Nothing was different. That's where feedback dies — not in the reading of it, but in the week after, when life resumes and the document closes. Understanding feedback and acting on it are two completely different skills. Most people only practice one. Here's what I told her to do instead: 𝟭/ 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗮 𝗯𝗲𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗶𝗼𝗿 "Be more strategic" tells you nothing. This does: take the project you're leading and present how it accelerates a priority your organization cares about — before your next leadership meeting. Specific. Timely. Actionable. For every piece of feedback, ask: what does this look like in practice? 𝟮/ 𝗔𝗱𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗴𝗼𝗮𝗹𝘀 If it doesn't make it into your goals, it's not going to happen. Don't create a separate "development item" that lives outside your work — embed it into the goal itself or into how you'll achieve it. If the feedback is "delegate more and develop your team," don't just note it. Update your existing goal to: 𝘥𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘗𝘳𝘰𝘫𝘦𝘤𝘵 𝘟 𝘣𝘺 𝘘3, 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘸𝘰 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘮 𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘬𝘦𝘺 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘴. Same goal. The feedback is now inside it. 𝟯/ 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁'𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿 Your calendar is your priorities made visible. If the change you need to make doesn't appear there, it won't happen. If the feedback is "scale your impact by partnering across the organization," don't wait for opportunities to show up. Schedule 1:1s this week with leaders in adjacent teams to learn their priorities. What's on your calendar next Monday tells you more about your intentions than anything you wrote in your development plan. 𝟰/ 𝗧𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 Share what you're working on with a peer, a mentor, or your manager. Not for accountability theater — because saying it out loud makes it real. And it invites the micro-feedback you'll need along the way. 𝟱/ 𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗮 𝟵𝟬-𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗰𝗸-𝗶𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 Not "am I trying harder?" — what's actually different in what you do? If the answer is nothing, the feedback is already expiring. The annual review is a gift. Most people open it, admire it, and put it back in the box. If nothing changes in what you do, the outcome is likely to be the same. What’s one change you’ve actually put on your calendar this year? PS: If you know someone in the middle of their review cycle — send this their way. --- Follow me, tap the (🔔) Omar Halabieh for weekly Leadership and Career posts

Does your feedback kill creativity? I’ve seen this pattern many times: brilliant ideas dying not from lack of merit, but from the way they’re critiqued. The problem isn’t feedback itself - it’s how we deliver it. When we offer criticism without direction, we’re not helping. Phrases like “This won’t work” or “That doesn’t make sense” are idea killers. They tear down without building up. The result? People stop sharing ideas when they know they’ll be shot down. And that fear becomes the team’s culture. Here’s what the best mentors I’ve seen do differently: instead of flattening ideas, they sharpen them. And here’s a practical framework that can help you do the same 👇 1️⃣ Observe a specific behavior or aspect of the idea 2️⃣ Explain why it might not achieve the desired result 3️⃣ Suggest questions or alternatives to try that may lead to the desired outcomes This approach honors the courage it takes to share creative work. It matches vulnerability with care and turns feedback sessions into collaborative problem-solving. ✨ The choice is yours: Will your feedback kill creativity, or will it help it soar?

Diversity metrics, scorecards, hiring targets—these are all important, but they don’t create real inclusion on their own. Too often, companies focus on tracking representation instead of listening to the experiences of the very people they want to include. When it comes down to it: ✅ Numbers don’t inspire change—stories do. ✅ People don’t feel included because of a statistic—they feel included when their voices are valued. ✅ Data can highlight gaps, but it’s personal experiences that drive action. 🗣️ We’ve seen it firsthand. A CEO who didn’t fully grasp the impact of bias, shifted his entire perspective after attending an ERG session and listening to employees’ stories. One company assumed women weren’t “raising their hands” for leadership roles—until they actually listened and realized women had been speaking up, but were ignored. This is the missing piece in many DEI efforts. Black History Month is a reminder of this. It’s a time when stories that are often overlooked get centered. But if we only engage with these narratives in February, we miss the bigger opportunity—to build workplaces where people are heard, valued, and truly included year-round. Is your company listening—or just measuring? Leave a comment and let’s talk. Oh, and if this image looks familiar, that's because I got featured on HumanizeHer's podcast and they took such wonderful photos. If you haven't listened to the podcast the link is in the comments. #DEI #BlackHistoryMatters #WorkplaceEquity #ReworkWork #InclusionAtWork

Finally, Australian organisations are realising that diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) work goes beyond gender, that all people have intersecting identities and our work must address these. Addressing ageism is crucial for genuine equality. Victoria's Gender Equality Act has allowed for consistent tracking of age data and it's analysis by gender. What have we learnt? We must: 🔍 Recognise the Impact: Ageism affects job opportunities and workplace culture, with significant pay gaps for older women. 🌐 Understand Generational Diversity: There are differences and similarities in the generations, we need to value the differences and foster the similarities to create a cohesive inclusive workplace 🚫 Challenge Stereotypes: Move away from generalisations. Focus on individual abilities and review recruitment processes for bias. This means actually unpacking the reasons people over 50 are not selected for roles. 🤝 Foster Intergenerational Collaboration: Encourage knowledge sharing and two way mentorship across generations to build a stronger, more inclusive team. 📚 Promote Lifelong Learning: Offer continuous development for all employees, aspiring leaders can be any age. Measure the age diversity of participants in professional development and leadership programs. 📑 Create Inclusive Policies: Have flexible work arrangements that are accessible for grandparents, people caring for parents, and people without caring responsibilities. Let's also not forget the impacts of menopause and peri-menopause - what is your workplace doing in this space? 🔗 Intersectionality: Consider ageism alongside sexism and racism. Our diversity, equity and inclusion work has to take into account different aspects of a persons identity and how that influences their opportunities and experiences. And age is one of those aspects that can really matter. Have you experienced ageism? What is your organisation doing to tackle it? Put your thoughts in the comments below. #Inclusion #AgeDiversity #WorkplaceEquality

🌍 The Real Reason Your Team Isn’t Connecting Might Surprise You 🛑 You’ve built a diverse team. Communication seems clear. Everyone speaks the same language. So why do projects stall? Why does feedback get misread? Why do brilliant employees feel misunderstood? Because what you’re facing isn’t a language barrier—it’s a cultural one. 🤔 Here’s what that looks like in real life: ✳ A team member from a collectivist culture avoids challenging a group decision, even when they disagree. ✳ A manager from a direct feedback culture gets labeled “harsh.” ✳ An employee doesn’t speak up in meetings—not because they don’t have ideas, but because interrupting feels disrespectful in their culture. These aren't missteps—they’re misalignments. And they can quietly erode trust, engagement, and performance. 💡 So how do we fix it? Here are 5 ways to reduce misalignments and build stronger, more inclusive teams: 🧭 1. Train for Cultural Competence—Not Just Diversity Don’t stop at DEI 101. Offer immersive training that helps employees navigate different communication styles, values, and worldviews. 🗣 2. Clarify Team Norms Make the invisible visible. Talk about what “respectful communication” means across cultures. Set expectations before conflicts arise. 🛎 3. Slow Down Decision-Making Fast-paced environments often leave diverse perspectives unheard. Build in time to reflect, revisit, and invite global input. 🌍 4. Encourage Curiosity Over Judgment When something feels off, ask: Could this be cultural? This small shift creates room for empathy and deeper connection. 📊 5. Audit Systems for Cultural Bias Review how you evaluate performance, give feedback, and promote leadership. Are your systems inclusive, or unintentionally favoring one style? 🎯 Cultural differences shouldn’t divide your team—they should drive your innovation. If you’re ready to create a workplace where every team member can thrive, I’d love to help. 📅 Book a complimentary call and let’s talk about what cultural competence could look like in your organization. The link is on my profile. Because when we understand each other, we work better together. 💬 #CulturalCompetence #GlobalTeams #InclusiveLeadership #CrossCulturalCommunication #DEIStrategy