Builder, 43, who 'killed himself live on the internet becomes third Brit to die on the same social media site where trolls 'mercilessly bully each other''

  • The 43-year-old was found dead by police in his Cardiff flat on Wednesday 
  • The builder hung himself during a live broadcast to viewers on Paltalk website
  • Gregory Tomkins, 39, killed himself on the site on Christmas Day last year 
  • Kevin Whitrick became the first Brit to commit suicide on the site in 2007 

A unnamed builder has become the third Brit to livestream his own suicide on Paltalk

A unnamed builder has become the third Brit to livestream his own suicide on Paltalk

A father has killed himself live on the internet after being goaded by cruel trolls, becoming the third Briton to broadcast their death on the same website.

The 43-year-old builder from Cardiff hanged himself on Paltalk, a controversial chat site where users can stream video to strangers.

The victim, who had not been named last night, set up a webcam and beamed his suicide to other users around the world as online bullies taunted him.

The trolls – including some based in Britain – encouraged him to go through with it, saying: 'Why don't you just do it? Your life isn't worth it.'

The shocking case yesterday prompted campaigners to call for better protection for vulnerable adults online.

It is understood the man originally started using Paltalk because he was lonely and depressed and wanted to make new friends. The US-based website allows users to talk to others via video, text or voice chats.

But fellow members said it wasn't long before he was 'bullied mercilessly'.

A friend he met online, who was not named, told the Sunday People: 'These chatrooms need to be shut down. This is the third person to die. He would still be alive if it wasn't for the vicious people who drove him to his death.

'He was a very funny guy. He was a character. He would do charades and impressions of people. He was just a lovely, fun, good person, such a gentle soul. What happened is so incredibly sad.'

Gregory Tomkins (pictured) took his life while live on PalTalk on Christmas Day last year
Gregory Tomkins (pictured) took his life while live on PalTalk on Christmas Day last year

Gregory Tomkins (pictured) took his life while live on PalTalk on Christmas Day last year

Another friend told the newspaper how the victim would move to different chatrooms to try to escape the bullies, but they would follow him and continue the abuse. 

When he opened up about being 'desperate' after splitting with his partner, they would tell him to kill himself.

The friend said: 'You could see they were making him the next target to push to suicide. That's what they do. They pick on someone who is weak and make a game out of it. He was driven to his death.'

She claimed that the bullies even started to contact their victim in the real world, phoning him and also his potential building clients, falsely telling them he was a drug addict.

She added: 'He was heartbreakingly honest about what was going on in his life and would say things like this was the only form of social interaction he had. 

'He was very open about the fact he was depressed. Sometimes he would even cry on camera.

The man was egged on by other users of the video chat forum Paltalk (pictured, file photo)

The man was egged on by other users of the video chat forum Paltalk (pictured, file photo)

'The vile people that use this chatroom used to tell him to kill himself. Since he died, they've been laughing about it, saying things like, 'He was a loser, he deserved it'.'

The first British man to commit suicide on the site was Kevin Whitrick, 42, in 2007

The first British man to commit suicide on the site was Kevin Whitrick, 42, in 2007

It is believed the alarm may not have been raised with staff at Paltalk while the suicide was taking place. However, users did eventually get a message to the police, who found the man's body in his flat on Wednesday.

South Wales Police said: 'We can confirm the sudden death of a 43-year-old man at a property on July 25. There are no suspicious circumstances.' 

A neighbour, who declined to be named, said: 'He was always on Paltalk – he showed me the site last year. 

'People go on it for banter but it turns into abuse and can get nasty. You could hear him screaming at people. The language was alarming.'

The tragedy comes seven months after south London plasterer Gregory Tomkins, 39, killed himself on Paltalk on Christmas Day. And in 2007, 42-year-old electrician Kevin Whitrick, from Wellington in Shropshire, died on the site as dozens of users watched.

Internet safety campaigner Dr Linda Papadopoulos called for more protection from online bullying. 'We rightly care about the impact on children a lot, but that vulnerability extends to adults, too,' she said.

Paltalk could not be reached for comment yesterday. 

For confidential support call the Samaritans on 116123 or visit a local Samaritans branch, see www.samaritans.org for details 

Controversial chatroom where users 'mercilessly bully' each other

Paltalk is a New York based video chat service which allows individuals to chat face-to-face either on a desktop computer or their mobile device.

The service, owned by A.V.M. Software, also allows subscribers to video chat with up to 10 people for free and hosts thousands of free chat rooms.

It was founded in 1998 - long before the likes of Facebook - and is popular with the first generation of internet users.

But it has courted controversy with some of its 5,000+ chatrooms dedicated to discussing terrorism.

'PalTalk is routinely used by internationally recognized and designated terrorist groups for communication and recruitment,' said Evan Kohlmann, a consultant for Flashpoint told CNN in 2012.

Terrorist group leaders have been known to hold open question and answer sessions on Paltalk which are advertised in advance on Al-Qaeda web forums, he said.

It is owned by AVM Software. 

In 2007, internet safety charities blasted Paltalk after a 42-year-old father from Telford, Shropshire, took his own life after being goaded by chatroom users.

An inquest heard how one user telling him to '****ing do it' because they believed he was 'play acting'.

He was logged on with around 50 other users to a special 'insult' chatroom where people 'have a go at each other' and initially the members did not believe he would go through with it. 

'Some of us chatroom users, talking to Kevin over text chat, microphones and video tried to convince him to step down, but others egged him on telling him to get on with it.

'We just couldn't believe he was doing it - it was surreal.

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