I find love making too painful

My husband and I have not made love for five years now because I find it

too painful for me.

My GP (also a gyaenocologist) tells me it's due to my

bad memories of a painful miscarriage I had (physical and mental) but this

was 10 years ago now and I really worry that something is wrong with me.

My libido is very low due to the menopause and I also suffer from

fibromyalgia syndrome which I understand can make intercourse painful. Any

suggestions please.

Karen, Wrexham