I've been faking it!
Before I married my husband he would always make love to me i.e. care about what I was feeling. More or less as soon as we got married he just gave me a quick fumble, got what he wanted and then fell asleep.
I now sleep in the spare bedroom and have done so for three years. My sexual response is not real, as I must admit I have spent all my life faking it!
I have discussed this issue with my husband but it doesn't seem to have made any difference.
