feat: ESM module, update all dependencies (#38)

BREAKING CHANGE: module is ESM only now, but sync loading and works with 22.12.0+

* feat: esm-only, update dependencies
* chore: cleanup dependencies

chore: use diff named locks

feat: upgrade dev deps, support pino 8+, target es2022 (#29)

BREAKING CHANGE: targets ES2022, pino 8, no other changes

chore: adjust cluster settings in tests

feat: upgrade deps

chore: correct publish config

fix: swap out bunyan for pino

feat: allow to pass on args to worker function

feat: default multi-lock extend timeout

BREAKING CHANGE: contains multiple dependencies that had major version updated.
Supports node >= 12.15.0

chore(deps): bump npm from 6.12.0 to 6.13.4

Bumps [npm](https://github.com/npm/cli) from 6.12.0 to 6.13.4.
- [Release notes](https://github.com/npm/cli/releases)
- [Changelog](https://github.com/npm/cli/blob/latest/CHANGELOG.md)
- [Commits](npm/cli@v6.12.0...v6.13.4)

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