Hi,

installed simple server pre 4 without any mods and it runs perfectly.
Then i have added ForgeModLoader to the mincraft_server.jar and InsturialCraft und BuildCraft to the Mod folder.

Startet the Server everything was loading, first the simple server and then the mods.

But when i try to connect now, i get the Message Connection refused: connecting.
When i now switch back to the server there is absolutly no notice in the command line about any connection trys.

It also didn't work, when i just start the server with Minecraft Forge and without any mods. So the problems have to be between simple server and Minecraft Forge.

SimpleServer -- Copyright (C) 2011 SimpleServer authors (see CONTRIBUTORS)
This program is licensed under The MIT License.
See file LICENSE for details.

Starting SimpleServer 8.4.4-a5da300
2012-10-01 15:47:50 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] Forge Mod Loader version 3.0.196.366
for Minecraft client:1.3.2, server:1.3.2 loading
2012-10-01 15:47:51 [INFO] [STDOUT] 195 recipes
2012-10-01 15:47:51 [INFO] [STDOUT] 27 achievements
2012-10-01 15:47:51 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] Attempting early MinecraftForge init
ialization
2012-10-01 15:47:51 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] Completed early MinecraftForge initi
alization
2012-10-01 15:47:51 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] Searching C:\Program Files (x86)\Min
ecraft\mods for mods
2012-10-01 15:47:52 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] Forge Mod Loader has identified 9 mo
ds to load
2012-10-01 15:47:54 [WARNING] [ForgeModLoader] BuildCraft: Using outdated versio
n [3.2.0pre7 (build:3)] for Minecraft 1.3.2. Consider updating.
2012-10-01 15:47:54 [INFO] [Buildcraft] Starting BuildCraft 3.2.0pre7 (:3)
2012-10-01 15:47:54 [INFO] [Buildcraft] Copyright (c) SpaceToad, 2011
2012-10-01 15:47:54 [INFO] [Buildcraft] http://www.mod-buildcraft.com
2012-10-01 15:47:54 [INFO] [STDOUT] [IC2] Config loaded from C:\Program Files (x
86)\Minecraft.\config\IC2.cfg
2012-10-01 15:47:55 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] MinecraftForge v4.1.1.251 Initialize
d
2012-10-01 15:47:55 [INFO] [STDOUT] MinecraftForge v4.1.1.251 Initialized
[IC2] Loading IC2 submodule: bcIntegration32x
2012-10-01 15:47:55 [INFO] [STDOUT] [IC2] BuildCraft 3.2 integration module load
ed
2012-10-01 15:47:55 [INFO] [STDOUT] [IC2] Loaded minor compatibility modules: no
ne
2012-10-01 15:47:55 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] Forge Mod Loader has successfully lo
aded 9 mods

And the same problem only with ForgeModLoader and without any mods:

SSimpleServer -- Copyright (C) 2011 SimpleServer authors (see CONTRIBUTORS)
This program is licensed under The MIT License.
See file LICENSE for details.

Starting SimpleServer 8.4.4-a5da300
2012-10-01 15:54:15 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] Forge Mod Loader version 3.0.196.366
for Minecraft client:1.3.2, server:1.3.2 loading
2012-10-01 15:54:16 [INFO] [STDOUT] 195 recipes
2012-10-01 15:54:16 [INFO] [STDOUT] 27 achievements
2012-10-01 15:54:16 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] Attempting early MinecraftForge init
ialization
2012-10-01 15:54:16 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] Completed early MinecraftForge initi
alization
2012-10-01 15:54:16 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] Searching C:\Program Files (x86)\Min
ecraft\mods for mods
2012-10-01 15:54:17 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] Forge Mod Loader has identified 2 mo
ds to load
2012-10-01 15:54:17 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] Forge Mod Loader has successfully lo
aded 2 mods
2012-10-01 15:54:18 [INFO] [ForgeModLoader] MinecraftForge v4.1.1.251 Initialize
d

There are absolutly no errors displayed!
Any guess?