Add ruby-3.3.0-preview3

Explicitly exit after this action runs to not wait for hanging promises

* See ruby#543

Update deprecated Node 16 to 20

Add truffleruby-23.1.1,truffleruby+graalvm-23.1.1

Java is now available on macos-arm-oss

Add support for macos-13-arm64 GitHub runners

Consider BUNDLE_ONLY in cache key

Add truffleruby-23.1.0,truffleruby+graalvm-23.1.0

Add jruby-9.3.11.0

Add truffleruby-23.0.0,truffleruby+graalvm-23.0.0