Latest Blog Posts from Charles Sanchez

The Chaos, the Madness, and the Highs I Shouldn’t Have Survived

The Chaos, the Madness, and the Highs I Shouldn’t Have Survived

“Geez, it’s a helluva time to be sober, huh?” I said this jokingly to a friend of mine recently, a fellow addict living with HIV. We both snickered, but we know the truth: there’s no drug or booze that could make any situation, even the hell of what we all are living through in Orange Cheeto’s America, better.

By Charles SanchezOctober 28, 2025
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Surviving AIDS and Facing Fear Again

Surviving AIDS and Facing Fear Again

When I woke up in a Little Rock, Ark. hospital in 2003, I didn’t know where I was, or why.

By Charles SanchezSeptember 23, 2025
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Broke, Ashamed, and Denied: What It’s Really Like to Apply for Social Services in 2025

Broke, Ashamed, and Denied: What It’s Really Like to Apply for Social Services in 2025

What is a person worth? Who is worthy? Of help, of love, of existence?

By Charles SanchezAugust 19, 2025
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Sing the Damn Song: Pride, Power, and the Joy of Sounding Like You

Sing the Damn Song: Pride, Power, and the Joy of Sounding Like You

I’ve been thinking about my first love lately. No, not my first serious boyfriend, Paul, nor my first hardcore crush in high school, Rick (oh, how cute he was in his corduroy OP shorts!), nor Patrick Duffy in the too-short-lived 70s TV show, The Man from Atlantis.

By Charles SanchezJune 23, 2025
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Smear the Queer: A Teenage Memory, a National Warning

Smear the Queer: A Teenage Memory, a National Warning

There’s an event in my life I’ve rarely shared. Not to friends, not to therapists, and definitely not to family. It’s a deeply mortifying memory, and it happened when I was only 17.

By Charles SanchezMay 20, 2025
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The World’s on Fire, But My Viral Load Is Undetectable

The World’s on Fire, But My Viral Load Is Undetectable

I have a wee crush on my doctor. He’s extremely good looking – tall, dark, and handsome, and very good at his job. He also has a husband, but I overlook that fault.

By Charles SanchezApril 22, 2025
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